Focus on Better Behavior

The majority of parents seem to be using time-outs in a way that does produce a positive outcome. It is used as punishment instead of discipline. Children throw a fit or misbehave because they are frustrated or angry. Something to try instead of putting them in a corner for a time-out is to send them to a comfortable place. Have an area set up as a place to calm down and relax. This will allow them to relax and be able to talk about their upset and allow you to help them understand how their behavior is not acceptable. Think about angry frustrated behavior in adults, they say things they don’t mean and have a hard time communicating, once they have calmed down they become more effective at communicating.