Focus on Better Behavior

Gone are the days of time-outs, distractions and gold stars when it comes to teens,  new tactics need to be used at this age. However, routine can still work with teenagers, they do well with clear guidelines and limited choices. Kids may bring all sorts of contracts home once school begins, for homework or athletics. It is a discipline that shows their commitment not just because someone told them so. Trying contracts at home for enforcing positive behavior can work well. They spell out what is expected and the consequences when those things are not met. it encourages better behavior and making good choices. When writing up a contract keep the following in mind: Be concise, keep it short or they may lose interest. Be specific when addressing a chore or responsibility. Be fair noting negotiations and rewards in the contract. Be open to changes adding new responsibilities and removing items that no longer apply. Most of all be involved and follow through with what is stated in the contract. You can find a variety of some sample contract online that you can work from.